How to Be An ALPHA MALE Who Doesn't Give a F%$# With Andrew Tate

what's up bulldogs all right i have a really awesome guest today i have the one and only andrew tate from tate's speech i've been following his content for a long time and i'm i wanted to really have my channel because if you guys want to know what it's like to be an alpha male i think

if you guys want to know what it's like to be an alpha male i think andrew exemplifies this more than just about anyone i know because he just does whatever the fuck he wants he says whatever the fuck he wants and he gets whatever the fuck he wants and that in my definition is what an alpha male is so welcome andrew

is what an alpha male is so welcome andrew thank you man thank you for having me on here and i like that description i think that's pretty close to exactly that should be absolutely every man's aspiration shouldn't it break free from the slavery in the chains and the societal norms

and to be able to do and act and say whatever they like so i think it's a it's a pretty good end goal for anybody yeah exactly especially today so many so much pressure i think on men to like act in a certain way and they

like act in a certain way and they conform to it this is there's so many i keep on saying it but i think the greatest problem that we have in society today is the pussification of men that so many men are just fucking pussies exactly because this is society i we can go really far

this is society i we can go really far down the rabbit hole with this one i don't want to go full alex jones on you but the truth is if you want to control a society you need to control the men because it's men which riot and calls revolutions it's men which can fight it's men which can really make

calls revolutions it's men which can fight it's men which can really make serious change women can scream and complain but they can be largely ignored but when men start to riot you have problems so how do you avoid that well you make sure the men don't have enough will or enough gumption to put up to resist the absolute shit show they're being

the absolute shit show they're being forced to put up with because the truth is life for 99 of men in the western world is awful and most of them know it and most of them feel it and still they will continue to pay their taxes and go to their job and sit inside of their sexless marriage

to their job and sit inside of their sexless marriage because they've they've lost their will to resist and this is done very this is done very specifically this is done on purpose it's not an accident because otherwise people would stand up and say wait what the price of everything's doubled in the

the price of everything's doubled in the last 10 years my wages are the same what's going on but no one does so it's it's a very conscious effort to damage the psyche and the fighting spirit of masculine men absolutely and what do you think is like the main thing that's being done in order to

thing that's being done in order to accomplish this is it porn video games what's the yeah what this is super interesting because it's such like a complicated web it's such a complicated web of factors you can talk about nearly anything and they all tie into each other but i truly believe we live in a

but i truly believe we live in a matriarchal society in the west now i no longer live in the west i live in romania if anyone doesn't know who i am my name is andrew tay i live in romania which is the far end of the european union it's like a strange place to live but i really like it here but when i go back to the west i realize

i really like it here but when i go back to the west i realize just how matriarchal the society is there's a lot of people on twitter i'm quite big on twitter and there's guys in the red pill space in the right-wing space who always talk about patriarchy and how they're gonna establish a patriarchal household and all this stuff and i try and explain

all this stuff and i try and explain the laws in western countries prevent you from ever being a patriarch if your woman any point decides to lie and say you hit her or to say you raped her or a girl you're sleeping with she he raped me i had sex with him consensually nine times

consensually nine times but the tenth time i was drunk and it was raped and the law they will come and arrest you how could you be a patriarch in a matriarchal society where females have the entire power of the law to destroy you at will you can't so the truth is the reason

you can't so the truth is the reason most men act the way they do is because they know that if push comes to shove the entire force of the legal system will always side with the female so why does the man come home after working a long

working a long 10 11 hours in the coal mine ask for a cup of coffee his woman tell him to fuck off continue to have no sex for three four years his kids don't respect him he's semi-depressed nearly suicidal but he doesn't get divorced well we know why because

but he doesn't get divorced well we know why because what's the option you're going to lose the house you're going to lose the kids you're going to be stuck paying for her bills and allowing her to go on endless dates you're out you're out of the game because it's extremely difficult to find a mate nowadays unless you're a talk to your mail

a mate nowadays unless you're a talk to your mail so what choice do you have it's a matriarchal society females have all the power in the west so right like any society if you're the class which is attacked or the class which is ostracized which men are you're going to lose your fighting spirit you're just going to think well the best way to

lose your fighting spirit you're just going to think well the best way to survive is just to be nice to everybody i'm just nice to do and that's that's what's happened because there really is unless you have that spark unless you have what it takes to truly build a life which is unique and build a

build a life which is unique and build a life which puts you beyond the controls of these enforcement mechanisms then the safest way to live is to be a simp it's not easy to be like me and run my mouth i've i've lived the consequences of talking i know what can happen and

consequences of talking i know what can happen and i'm sure you've been there too with the shit on twitter and blah it's not most people can't put up with this yeah no it's costing me hundreds of thousands of dollars to run my fucking mouth and not apologize especially when they want you to get on your fucking knees and say hey we'll make the pain stop if you fucking

and say hey we'll make the pain stop if you fucking apologize and that's that's that's the most deadly trap because for one it's false and two it's like it's it's giving up everything that you stand for as a man and yes but yeah that's that's the price for sure

price for sure absolutely man like i see these people apologize and stuff i'm like what are you doing why like my biggest ever outrage is when this was about four years ago is when i was still verified on twitter before i got banned and i said depression wasn't real and i

got banned and i said depression wasn't real and i know that's like a really controversial take and my point was very simple my point is that depression is a natural instinct inside of men and it's something it's something that is designed to show you that you need to change something about your life

something about your life if the like you go to jail and you're depressed it's not because you've caught depression it's because you're in jail this is why so if you feel depressed you need to wake up and go well why am i depressed and how can i change this i had people message me saying you don't understand how it feels i'm

message me saying you don't understand how it feels i'm fat and i can't get a girlfriend because i'm depressed i said no you're depressed because you're fat you can't get a girlfriend you go the wrong way around so when i said depression wasn't a clinical disease and it's simply the result of not living a life that you truly enjoy and you're not happy with

truly enjoy and you're not happy with i it blew up it went huge i had hollywood stars i had jk rowling and the guy who plays the incredible hulk and everyone was coming for me and when this was like the most controversial i got and everyone was trying to cancel me and at the time i was doing television commentary for

i was doing television commentary for the cage fighting here in romania and when i went into work to commentate the owner of the organization called rxf it's like the romanian ufc he had a he had a stack of emails like this where people had googled me found my employment and emailed him saying i'm a

employment and emailed him saying i'm a misogynist and i'm i'm fucking encouraging suicide and all these crazy pages of pages and he sat down there and goes what's this i was like bro in the west this is what they do and he was laughing out loud he was easy romanian he was reading emails going these people

he was reading emails going these people have no lie what are these people it's like eagles what do they want me to do i was like they're hoping you're going to fire me right the whole boardroom was laughing and they threw they threw the emails away and we carried on with life because we're not in a society which is held ransom i'm i'm lucky to live in a society which is not held ransomed by

ransom i'm i'm lucky to live in a society which is not held ransomed by these people in america yeah if i had a normal job it would have been it's absolutely crazy now so and what happens when you take away a man's speech if a man is not free to talk what's a man free to do that's the first way you

talk what's a man free to do that's the first way you de-masculinize a man you tell him to shut up exactly that's what happens yeah that's crazy that's i have the same exact view on depression it's and i've said it multiple times and i don't understand why people are so damn outraged by it because it's not

damn outraged by it because it's not that big of a fucking deal right it's like yeah like it's especially with depression it's it's cyclic also like our lives are supposed to go up and down they don't just fucking go up it's a roller coaster life is depressing i say this to people

coaster life is depressing i say this to people i'm depressed well life's depressing you're getting older you're gonna die there's a whole bunch of people with a bunch more money than you welcome to the fucking real world life's depressing are you a bitch you're gonna cry about it you're gonna do something about it

cry about it you're gonna do something about it like life is depressing who told us tell me where it says in the human handbook that we're supposed to be happy all of the time right we're all supposed to be happy we're supposed to survive now if you're a man you can survive even if you're miserable i say this all the time give me

if you're miserable i say this all the time give me depression you wouldn't even notice this is what pisses them off because they're like yeah you wouldn't be able to function i guarantee i can still drive my lambo and fuck women i guarantee you right because i refuse i refuse to be such a baby that i'm gonna sit there and go well i

that i'm gonna sit there and go well i feel a certain way so i have to act a certain way no one of the number one tenets of masculinity in fact it's probably the primary tenet of masculinity is acting different to how you feel this is the primary tenant of masculinity

primary tenant of masculinity do you think the men on the titanic felt like dying no but they acted a certain way because they were men the women and the children are afraid and they're gonna run i'm afraid and i'm gonna stay here because i'm a man as a man you have to control your emotions so i don't give a shit if you're

so i don't give a shit if you're depressed there's no excuse to not be an adult and make sensible decisions based on discipline alone i'm too depressed to train no you lack discipline because i've been i've felt miserable every single person has i didn't miss a gym session ever so i don't believe in that crap i don't

so i don't believe in that crap i don't believe in it and i don't believe in it because i know that the true cure to fixing people is to tell them here's the example i gave when this whole thing blew up i said if i moved into a house and i heard squeaks in the night and i don't believe in ghosts i'm going

and i don't believe in ghosts i'm going to attribute to the wind and go back to sleep if i move into the same house and hear the same squeaks but i'm a big believer in ghosts i'm going to start being scared i'm going to call an exorcist i'm going to say it's a ghost so my point is the same situation gets worse

worse based primarily on my beliefs if you don't believe in depression you can't be depressed right all you can be is okay i feel a bit pissed off time to get up and go get it let's hit the gym bang hit the club i'm gonna go i'm gonna make some things happen in my life but if you do

things happen in my life but if you do believe in depression the second you feel sad the first thing you do is sit down and go this isn't my fault i feel this way i have a disease and nothing's going to make me better and you're going to get worse so this is the whole point this is what was amazing when i said depression wasn't real i said if all you

is the whole point this is what was amazing when i said depression wasn't real i said if all you because i was getting attacked by all the avatar and on characters i'm depressed you don't understand my friend killed himself blah i was like listen if depression is really so horrible why are you all defending it so fervently so it's real it's real it's

so fervently so it's real it's real it's so powerful it's real why are you defending this horrible thing why don't you sit there and go what you're right andrew fuck depression they want to defend it because it's an identity it's something that allows them to feign individuality it's something that allows them

allows them to it's an excuse it's a ready-made excuse for all of life's failures i'm a loser but it's not my fault but depression that's all it is fucking coping mechanism i don't believe it i do not believe in depression i believe if you really feel terrible

in depression i believe if you really feel terrible and somewhere to come along give you 10 million dollars you'd probably feel a bit better also just to quickly touch on this because every time i say this people come at me and think they're smart and they say well what about robin williams he was famous he killed himself blah i say yeah and i'll tell you why he

blah i say yeah and i'll tell you why he killed himself he killed himself because of people like you who were telling me telling him depression is real not people like me right people when robin williams robert williams was in was in therapy for 10 years if he would have walked into his first therapy session and his therapist said

if he would have walked into his first therapy session and his therapist said look robin you're a millionaire you're famous you can fuck any woman alive it's insulting to people with ptsd and genuine conditions which i believe is different if you've been through some real shit in a war fine you could be depressed if you're just joe schmoe and nothing's happened to you have

you're just joe schmoe and nothing's happened to you have no reason to be depressed i'd say look robin you've got a fantastic life you coming here is insulting to people with real issues grow up and get the fuck out my office i guarantee he'd still be alive but instead they start giving him mind-altering drugs antidepressants they fuck with his brain

antidepressants they fuck with his brain chemistry they tell him to sit down and for 10 years every day go through every bad thing that's ever happened to you so you cry your eyes out after 10 years now i'd jump off a bridge yeah of course of course you thought i can't handle another one of these therapy bullshit at the whole time

can't handle another one of these therapy bullshit at the whole time they're telling him you're never gonna get better you're never gonna get better depression's got you now there's nothing you can do it's in your brain like come on man this whole idea of depression being the scariest thing in the world is what's making people kill themselves you're

scariest thing in the world is what's making people kill themselves you're giving these people no hope i'll give you hope it's bullshit there's your hope it's bullshit and you're being a bitch get up and be a man there's your hope crazy yeah no i agree with you 100 on this

yeah no i agree with you 100 on this listen up guys because this is important in fact every single one of my when i do a coaching call with one of my new coaching clients they always have some problem right and the very first thing i tell them is there's nothing fucking wrong with you there's nothing whatever it is i'm scared to talk to

there's nothing whatever it is i'm scared to talk to girls i have social anxiety i'm super nervous whatever it is i'm super depressed whatever the problem is have adhd nope there's nothing fucking wrong with you're perfectly normal that's that's exactly because everyone has to deal with their shit and it's

exactly because everyone has to deal with their shit and it's it's just a question of whether you've dealt with your shit or not and most guys have not dealt with their shit and once you deal with your shit we all have different shit to deal with but there's no it's the natural state of humans to be to be fucked up like we're all fucked

to be fucked up like we're all fucked up of course and life ain't fucking easy the problem is we've we've given names to everything and when you give everything a name people buy into it faster yeah so like i remember a very quick story i was i was fighting when i was still fighting pro my number one gym mate he was like another guy he

when i was still fighting pro my number one gym mate he was like another guy he was fighting ufc i was fighting kickboxing and he was at the same time as training he would train for me for about five years and when you're training pro you always pick up injuries things hurt all the time sparring training whatever fights you don't have time to heal before your next fight things hurt

time to heal before your next fight things hurt anyway he was training to become an osteopath at the same time once he became an osteopath he was constantly out with injury and i was like why are you always out with injuries like i've damaged my rotator cuff or i've damaged my second ligament and my knee that i was like bro before you knew the names of all this