Give a man a hammer and everything starts looking like a nail.

Give a man a hammer and everything starts looking like a nail. The surgeon recommends surgery. The lawyer recommends a case. The therapist finds childhood. The trainer finds posture. All of them are completely sincere. Ask a man whose whole identity is built on discipline. Ask him why your life is not working and he'll say, discipline.

You lack discipline. That was decided before you even opened your mouth. Everybody gives relationship advice like their own last wound. A friend who was cheated on sees cheating. The one who left too late says leave. They're not describing your situation, they're describing theirs out loud to you.

It's not an advice, it's their story. Welcome to the other side.

It's not an advice, it's their story. Welcome to the other side.

Welcome to the other side.