I posted this video 100 days ago today and I genuinely mean it when I say it changed my life.

I got married at 21 years old, I had two kids by 25, and a third on the way by 27. I've never tried alcohol, never touched drugs, I don't go to parties, I've only slept with one woman, my beautiful wife. I stay away from pornography, and I'm very conscious of what I put in my

body, and some people would say that I'm missing out on my 20s, but the thing is... out on my twenties but the thing is when I was young enough people that I looked up to people whose lives I wanted to mold my life after were all saying the same things that what mattered

most to them was never the money, was never the business, was never the six pack it was the relationships that they built with their loving wives That they'd built with their loving wives or husbands, the amazing families they were building with their kids. So I decided to just jump that

phase of life where everyone's focused on having fun, looking out for only themselves, making money, sleeping around, just wandering without a purpose. and the thing is if you want to have a life, that's full of purpose

want to have a life in your 40s and 50s And the thing is, if you see yourself eventually focusing on building a family and becoming a good partner why wait why would you waste any time not working on yourself so that you can become the

type of person who would make a good partner so you can become the type of person that another little kid would so you can become the type of person look up to and think I want to be like them so you can become a role model to your future kids if you see yourself like that in your 40s in your 50s why are you not starting in your 20s

don't fall into the traps of the world just because you're young doesn't mean you can't start building the habits that make a truly successful life. Just listen to anyone who's found real success, and they'll tell you. It's

not in the things that people typically focus on in their 20s. So if you want to be someone eventually, why aren't you starting now?

want to be someone eventually, why aren't you starting now?