HELLO I have had so many lovely messages about how we have found our…

My fiance has been named the internet's biggest green flag and now that I've locked him in, I'm gonna let you in on all my secrets of how I created the perfect man. I'm joking but I'm also absolutely not. This man did not come gift wrapped with only green flags. James and I have nearly broken up, I would say, probably two major times. Both times were a feeling of needing more

from his life in his twenties. I guess the first thing you think is, well, the only thing I can change in my relationship, so me. I truly believe that you don't need to leave a loving, happy relationship. you work on yourself like you can work on yourself individually You work on yourself. Like, you can work on yourself. while still being in a relationship i feel like that's controversial and some people think

no you need to be on your own at some point in your life fair i've never done that so i wouldn't know my biggest lesson or like my biggest thing that i think i've learned myself was independence within our long -term relationship when i felt james pulling away from me i let him it was like you go do you i will be doing me at the same time it was so hard

not to scream and cry like come back to me and never leave my side we didn't break up or go on a break or anything but it was definitely a very conscious thing in my head in the meantime i built on my hobbies built on my friendships built on my own personality and myself and by i guess like pulling apart we came back together so much stronger that is episode one of

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