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to stay in love what would that be once a week tell your partner three things that you love about them and three things they could have done better but some people thinking well if i told dave that we're gonna start writing these notes to each other he's gonna cringe you're not gonna do it honestly dave can't name three things he likes about you really dave is that a big ask i absolutely

call bull on that the bigger question is what's uncomfortable about that for you and look i'm not a therapist i'm a divorce lawyer i represent some of the most high achieving minds I'm a divorce lawyer. I represent some of the most high -achieving minds, athletes, entrepreneurs, and they're just as bad at this as anybody because there's a

part of us that's afraid to poke at what do you love about me? What am I getting wrong? And it's not just romantic relationships. Like, my mom died 10 years ago after a long battle with cancer. There was a lot between us that needed to be said and wasn't said.

and there's a part of me that wishes she was here so that i could have apologized for some things And there's a part of me that wishes. i got wrong but we don't do that because people just don't want temporary discomfort and

so i think there's something deeply courageous about love about commitment about saying i'm going to give them the opportunity to hurt me like it's scary but i'm brave your marriage will end that ends in death or divorce and for two people at the end of their relationship to say this person helped me become the most authentic version of myself That's the greatest gift you could give to another human being

as you can see from this photo I just proposed to my fiance. I'd like some advice on how not to mess this up Like if my fiance ends up walking into your practice, what is the reason she's likely to end up there? The number one reason that I'm gonna have a woman sitting across from me divorcing someone

who's a great provider great protector is He's a great provider, a great protector. That is not obvious to everybody. And it'll keep me in business for the rest of my life.