What Actually Causes People To Divorce?

Why do so many people divorce someone they thought was their favorite person? It's mostly because good times are a poor predictor of how you'll handle bad times. And handling bad times is much more important to the success of a marriage. But as a species and as a culture, we have not truly internalized this. And this is Visekan Verasimi, and I think he's so right. I would guess, on average, there are far

more breakups that occur due to a surplus of bad events than a scarcity of good ones. If you argue every two or three days, and they're big arguments, that is so much If you argue every two or three days, and they're big arguments. more damaging to a relationship than simply not having enough peak experiences. It's perfectly explained

by this next one, which is by the same guy, Visi Kamberasamy. It's the lows, not the highs that make or break a relationship. How you handle misunderstandings, conflict, confusion, and disagreement that go the distance. People get kicked out the bottom of relationships because they're unable to argue well with their partner. They do not get kicked out of relationships at the same rate because they are the same rate because they not having

peak experiences with their partner. It's the lows, not the highs that make or break a relationship.

peak experiences with their partner. It's the lows, not the highs that make or break a relationship.

a relationship.