EPISODE 5: RELATIONSHIPMAXXING #love #girlfriend #relationships #life #growth

Here are three mistakes I made in relationships that proved I was still a boy, not a man. Number one, I ignored emotional labor. I used to think being a good boyfriend just meant being loyal. But I didn't realize how exhausting it is when your girl has to be the one bringing things up and asking you more than once to do the bare minimum. Number two, I used to use my girlfriend as an excuse instead of being honest.

Saying my girl won't let me sounds harmless. But when you do that enough, people stop blaming you and start resenting your girlfriend. Number three, I learned that talking down on the woman you love, even as a joke, slowly ruins the relationship. Because when you start speaking badly about her, eventually you start loving her that way too.

Because when you start speaking badly about her, eventually you start loving her that way too.