You would defend her from anything.

I could take a punch for her, but I couldn't take accountability. As men, we talk so much about protecting the woman we love. If someone disrespected her, hurt her, or make her feel unsafe, most of us would react immediately. But the person we love sit in front of us and say, you make me feel lonely. Instead of owning up, we get defensive.

We explain, we justify, we start talking about what we meant instead of listening to what they felt. I remember one night she was sitting on the edge of the bed, trying so hard not to cry. And I was more focused on proving I wasn't the bad guy than seeing her pain. Sometimes protecting the relationship means protecting her from your pride.

Because if you can't handle her heart with care, what are you protecting?

Because if you can't handle her heart with care, what are you protecting?

what are you protecting?