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main reason that you should never speak your boundaries out loud to a woman is because they are born negotiators. Every time that they get into a discussion, they're not getting exactly what they want out of that discussion. It is their instinct to negotiate. And they pick this up from a very young age. They start negotiating with their father for things that they want and they learn ways to take what their father

main reason that you should never speak your boundaries out loud to a woman is because they are born negotiators. Every time that they get into a discussion, they're not getting exactly what they want out of that discussion. It is their instinct to negotiate. And they pick this up from a very young age. They start negotiating with their father for things that they want and they learn ways to take what their father

father for things that they want and they learn ways to take what their father said, use it as ammunition against him. Once you tell a woman your boundary, you speak your boundary, she's going to identify times where you have violated this boundary a hypocrite. She's going to identify times where you've allowed other people to cross this boundary. Times where you have let her cross the boundary. Look, so what she's doing

father for things that they want and they learn ways to take what their father said, use it as ammunition against him. Once you tell a woman your boundary, you speak your boundary, she's going to identify times where you have violated this boundary a hypocrite. She's going to identify times where you've allowed other people to cross this boundary. Times where you have let her cross the boundary. Look, so what she's doing

boundary. Times where you have let her cross the boundary. Look, so what she's doing when you vocalize your boundary she's going to ask you to explain it further this is all ammunition that she is going to use as leverage to negotiate your boundary this is why your boundary must go unspoken and only enforced when it is crossed women as a whole have most men convinced that they have to explain exactly what

boundary. Times where you have let her cross the boundary. Look, so what she's doing when you vocalize your boundary she's going to ask you to explain it further this is all ammunition that she is going to use as leverage to negotiate your boundary this is why your boundary must go unspoken and only enforced when it is crossed women as a whole have most men convinced that they have to explain exactly what

this woman has done wrong so that the woman can understand it the woman knows from wrong she knows what she did she knows what she did she's playing dumb every time so what happens when she crosses your boundary you name the things that she did, you say this is unacceptable. Depending on the severity, you remove yourself. Do not entertain any back and forth about your boundary. If she asks you to

this woman has done wrong so that the woman can understand it the woman knows from wrong she knows what she did she knows what she did she's playing dumb every time so what happens when she crosses your boundary you name the things that she did, you say this is unacceptable. Depending on the severity, you remove yourself. Do not entertain any back and forth about your boundary. If she asks you to

Do not entertain any back and forth about your boundary. If she asks you to explain it again, don't. The more that you explain it, the more confident that she will feel that she can overcome this boundary. Just with her words. Here's the thing though, you can't take her back until she correctly identifies that she did something wrong. She has to demonstrate, and I know this is a really high bar for

Do not entertain any back and forth about your boundary. If she asks you to explain it again, don't. The more that you explain it, the more confident that she will feel that she can overcome this boundary. Just with her words. Here's the thing though, you can't take her back until she correctly identifies that she did something wrong. She has to demonstrate, and I know this is a really high bar for

wrong. She has to demonstrate, and I know this is a really high bar for women, she has to demonstrate that she understands the difference between and wrong. And she has to be able to understand articulate that to you. If she can't do that, you should not take her back.

wrong. She has to demonstrate, and I know this is a really high bar for women, she has to demonstrate that she understands the difference between and wrong. And she has to be able to understand articulate that to you. If she can't do that, you should not take her back.

she has to be able to understand articulate that to you. If she can't do that, you should not take her back.

she has to be able to understand articulate that to you. If she can't do that, you should not take her back.

that, you should not take her back.

that, you should not take her back.